3 Questions to Ask Before Getting Your Ex Back

Normally after we have gotten out of a relationship, our emotions are high and highly sensitivity to relationship especially when you see couples holding hands or kissing.  It makes you just want to get back to your ex boyfriend or girlfriend immediately. You miss the times spent with her, the simplest things like receiving a call or an SMS, you just miss everything and anything.  Before you even think about getting back to him / her on impulse, you need to do a checklist.  It is no use getting back into a relationship which you were unhappy about and repeating the whole endless process.  Take a look at the 3 questions and think about it.

Is she / he worth it?

I guess the above question is one of the best and most important questions to ask before taking any action.  Is he / she worth it?  If your ex is abusive, a drug taker, disrespectful of you or is just simply not interested in having a relationship with you, is he / she worth it?  Ask yourself and list out 10 things which you find is worth it in getting back to your ex and weight it out yourself.  If he/she is worth everything on earth for you.  Go get him/her back.

What did I do wrong?

In a relationship with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend, please don’t tell me that you guys broke up entirely because of him or her.  It takes 2 hands to clap and it takes 2 hands to let go.  Take responsibility for the things you have done.  Don’t always look towards the other party and say she/he is at fault.  If there is some issues between both of you, have you taken the first step to solve and conclude the problem that both are agreeable on the compromise?  When more and more issues accumulate and left unsolved, either party will build up unhappiness in the relationship and as long as it is not solved, it will forever be an issue between both of you.  It is like a burden or a time bomb waiting to explode for a bad argument.

Are You Willing to Accept and Start Afresh?

If you think you can just go back and get your ex back for good, you are most properly correct.  However, you need to be mentally prepared too.  With the end in mind, is a good start.  There are other things you need to take into consideration.  The scars will always be there and it could be a source of confliction if it remains unsolved, and will be highly sensitive area to touch on.  The criticism will come in from your family and friends.  Some will encourage you, some will put you off, some will say that it is impossible to get back to your ex.  There will be many other hurdles to cross, however, if he/she is really worth it, nothing can stop you from getting back to your ex.  Just stay firm and go ahead.