The Science Of Picking Up Women

All men have experienced the next type of situation. You find yourself captivated by a beautiful woman you have just saw. Everything about her makes you want her. You have a strong urge to immediately venture over to where she is and start talking to her. You want to know her name, where she lives, if she is available and what her phone number is

Suddenly your mouth gets dry, your hands start to feel moist and your brain gives you a hundred reasons to just look away. So what do you do? Give up and run to fight another day (and beat yourself up for it for the next week) or breathe deep, bite the bullet and approach her even though you don't know the best way of doing this - especially beautiful ones?

Almost every man encounters this situation at one point or another - if not extremely often. It can be hard for men to approach girls and even harder when it comes to picking up women how are beautiful. The art of picking up women has become much harder since females became more independent and selective in their choice of partners. Men, in this day and age, are up against the odds!

So here are a few tips for picking up women that you may not have used before.

- Where have you been going in an attempt to meet females? Do you know that very few girls meet their partner in a bar? Think of the type of woman you want to spend time with. What does she like doing? What are her interests? Picking up women is easier when you meet them in places that interest them, while you are doing things they find interesting. Being passionate about what you love is one of the easiest methods to seduce beautiful girls. So seek out girls in places where they will appreciate the things you enjoy doing!

- Don't rush in! Review the situation first. Has she noticed you? Did she look over? Many men refuse to believe a beautiful woman may be interested in them. The very same rules apply to gorgeous girls as those that apply to average ones when it comes to picking up women.

- Attempt to catch her eye. When you catch her eye give her a little smile. Do not look away nervously! Stay relaxed but try not to stare at her. Just smile naturally not with a wide Cheshire cat grin. Being natural and confident is the key to getting girls attention.

- Don't overdo it! Look away and give her a second to access the situation and you. After a few minutes you can make your move.

- If she looks at you there is a chance. If she smiles you're onto a winner. If she looks away shyly or immediately talks to her friend and her friend looks over this is a good sign. But don't expect her to approach you! If you're in a bar send over a drink first. Wait for several minutes before you walk over to her, to give her time to question why you did it and have a think about how she feels about it! If you are in a special interest setting start talking to her about it.

- However, when picking up women there is on occasions reason to act quickly. You should act quickly if she looks bored. This is the only time you should ignore the tip above. If she looks bored or annoyed with her company just act! Opportunities are available everyday but they only turn into successes if you act!

- Girls love confident, bold men. Only 20% of a woman's attraction to a man is based on physical appearance. This is an important point when it comes to picking up women.

- If you think confidently you will naturally act confidently. When picking up women it is important to project confidence. Therefore while you are preparing to approach just quickly imagine a positive outcome in your mind. Quickly imagine that you are walking towards her. then you start talking and laughing with her. Then see yourself getting her number. This will put you immediately into a more confident frame of mind which will be reflected in your body language.

- The above technique should also be used when you are not in the company of anyone else - as a sort of practice run. It is an invaluable technique when it comes to picking up women. Visualize yourself being confident around girls and successful with beautiful ones. Visualize this every night just before you drift off to sleep. Many men do not understand the true impact this technique can have on your dating success. By using this visualization method you will definately increase your number of dates and become much better at picking up women! Women know if you are confident or faking it so this little technique will dramatically improve your confidence and belief in yourself.

Follow the above advice and you will do well in the dating game and will get to meet many beautiful and interesting girls.