4 Tips To Reunite And Get Back Together After A Break Up

Relationships can flood you with a wave of emotions at the most trivial times but after a break up people tend to fly off the handle by letting their emotions dictate their actions due to their desperation to do anything to get their ex back.Here are some important things you must do to ensure you have every chance to reunite after a break up.1.  Control Your Emotions:  Many times couples break up in the heat of the moment, often this occurs during a dispute when emotions are running high.  Often a break up is a crying call from your ex that they are not happy in the relationship.  This is not to say that your relationship can not be mended and improved but you must ensure you act cool,  calm and collected.2.  Give Your Ex Space & Time: Giving your ex space is critical to reunite after a breaking up, if you constantly call, text message and bombard your ex you will greatly hamper your chances to get back together.  The reason why couples can reunite and break up constantly is because a break up often occurs when emotions are running high, give you and your ex time to gather your thoughts.3. Acknowledge Your Relationship Is Broken: Regardless of the reason for the break up it's common that the real reasons why you or your ex have ended the relationship is often never discussed.  It can be the smallest and most trivial aspect of your relationship that has snowballed into larger issues, this is not to say they can not be resolved but you must acknowledge that your relationship needs urgent mending.4. Honesty and Maturity:  You must fix the issues in your relationship before you can reunite and stay together, this time for good! Do not blindly apologize for everything that you believe went gone wrong with your relationship, both you and your partner are reasonable for where you are today and being completely honest and mature during this stage is a must.  Chances are you are still in contact with your ex, be confident, positive and agree that your relationship is over at this point but avoid the urge to ask for just "one more chance" and promising "things will be different this time."  This will not resolve the issues and reservations your ex has to continue the relationship.How do couples reunite and get back together after a break up? By understanding how to identify and resolve the underlying issues that have manifested into a break up and by turning back the clock and rediscovering the magic in their relationship.