Wanting to get back together with your ex after a breakup is a natural reaction, and there is nothing wrong with that. But what is your reason for wanting to reunite with your ex. Sometimes it's better to be alone for the right reasons, than to be with someone for the wrong ones
Breaking up with someone is never easy, it leaves you feeling empty, and it's natural to want to get back together with your ex after a break up. But you have to be honest with yourself and be sure that you actually want to get back together with your ex, or if your just feeling the after affects of the break up. Are you sure you are still in love with your ex? If not you could make matters worse if you do get back together.
Everyone who wants to get back together with their ex is going to have feelings of loneliness, maybe a feeling of regret. There is an ocean of emotions that a person feels after a break up, or you wouldn't be wanting to get back together with your ex. Some people just will not or can not except that the relationship is really over. Your priority here is to determine if you are truly in love with your ex, or if your just feeling the emotions that naturally go with a break up.
So how do you decipher between being truly in love with your ex, or if your just feeling those after affects. Well, that is something that only you can honestly answer. If you ask 100 people, "How do you know when your truly in love"? Your going to get 100 different answers. If you look up the definition of love this is what you will find: •a strong positive emotion of regard and affection; •any object of warm affection or devotion; •have a great affection or liking for; •get pleasure from. That all describes exactly how I feel about deep fried chicken.
So here's the best description that I can give you for "Love".
If you take away my deep fried chicken, I'm going to be fighting mad, I'm going to miss it, I'm going to want it back. But... I can live without it, being without it is not going affect my life. Now if you bring my fried chicken back I'll be fine just knowing it's there. (At least until you take away my tatters and gravy). But I don't need fried chicken every moment of every day for the rest of my life. And that is what I think love is, someone you can't live without, the very air that you breathe, an extention of yourself.
That's the best discription that I can give you for truly being in love. If you want to get back together with your ex simply because you miss him/her. then you may want to think about the real reasons you miss them.
If you find that you truly do love your ex and NEED them in your life. Then by all means go get back together with him/her. And if you have been following my articles you know how to do that. Follow the steps that I have been laying out for you, you'll be fine. One of the reasons you love your ex so much, is because they love you that much too.
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