Recently, I had a dialogue with a highly ranked security intelligence agent who told me a story how several Western security agencies (FBI in the USA, CSIS in Canada, MI-% in the UK, secret Garda in Ireland, etc.), during over 10 years period, have tried to marry one man by influencing over 50 females he was in touch with. The females were secretly suggested to try to see, if he was a suitable husband and behave correspondingly.
Recently,
I had a dialogue with a highly ranked security intelligence agent who told me a story how several Western security agencies (FBI in the USA, CSIS in Canada, MI-% in the UK, secret Garda in Ireland, etc.), during over 10 years period, have tried to marry one man by influencing over 50 females he was in touch with. The females were secretly suggested to try to see, if he was a suitable husband and behave correspondingly. (Why? Secret agents tried to correct their past “mistakes” since the man lost his family, health, friends, most hobbies, employment, etc. due to “intelligent” activities using viruses, sleep deprivation, mercury, aluminium, radiation, etc.)
Thinking about the approach chosen by agents, I suggested that their idea is silly and cannot work. How and why? Here are my thoughts about this topic.
There are simple experimental studies which are possible to conduct or even imagine, but likely all secret agents worldwide will claim that my ideas are wrong.
Situation 1. A young unmarried handsome male, university graduate, is going to be a teacher in some school or college for females, many of whom do not have boyfriends or spouses. Secret agents approach 5 females, in most positive terms, and say to them, “He is a great teacher. Go and see if he is a suitable husband for you.” 5 other females, in most positive terms, are said, “He is a great teacher. Go and learn math as good as you can. We want to make some conclusions about your learning and interactions.”
Outcomes. 5 “after-the-husband females” will be lousy math learners. If he tries to teach them also music or sport, these 5 females will try to reject, deny, refuse, malinger, etc. all his suggestions and ideas (i.e., the generalization effect).
Five “after-the-business” females will be great learners, and also are likely to develop affection in relation to him, if conditions are right and only if secret agents never mention intimacy as any of their goals.
Situation 2. A young handsome sport coach arrives to coach a female sport team. Many females are unmarried and have no boyfriends. 5 females are suggested, in most polite terms, to go after the husband, while 5 other females are suggested to train their best for superior performance since he is a gifted coach.
Outcomes. 5 “after-the-husband females” will be lousy athletes. If he tries to teach them also nutrition or music 5 females will try to reject, deny, refuse, malinger, etc. all his suggestions and ideas in any other area (i.e., the generalization effect).
Situation 3. A young unmarried Christian male is going to join a church. The parish has several unmarried females. Half of them are suggested the intimacy idea, another half to get involved in something that this male teaches or shares with others…
Situation 4. …
In all these situations, regardless of fantasies, dreams, emotions and feelings of the agents, 5 intimacy-oriented females will be tense, stressed, anxious, with no laughs and no smiles, rejecting, obnoxious, silly, etc. in any area of interactions with this male.
As about 5 business-oriented females, they will be spontaneous, creative, easy-going, seductive, cheerful, etc. not only in the area of the business, but also in other areas as well.
There are many important details here. If agents introduce any shades of suspicion in relation to the man, the possible affection of females will be correspondingly reduced. If agents try to use erotization of environment for these females, the intimacy-oriented ones will likely go after other males who happened to be nearby. Other females can get afraid of being raped by … this man.
If there are hundreds or even thousands of “intelligent” agents who have the opposite opinion, then this testifies only about the level of psychological development of these secret agents. If these agents are absolutely sure and will never think about other options, apart from intimacy-orientation, then, in addition, this testifies about spiritual development and “creativity” of these agents.
However, the most shocking fact in this story was that this man wrote and described this psychological effect over 5 years ago. Moreover, he was analysing and updating his notes, month after month, when he met new and new females, but none of the so called “security intelligence” people expressed real interest to his writings.
Obviously, secret agents could send 100 or even 200 females to meet this man with this silly design. However, there were over 30 females whom this man met due to his travelling and life style: going to churches, doing volunteering Christian work, training in sport clubs, etc. He was meeting his possible soul-mates, which is a rare and cherished life chance, and the secret agents, behind his back, were instructing these females how to expose their legs or breasts (for seduction), how to play with hairs, with the cell-phone, etc. Logically, virtually all these females run in horror from him, often finding other boys and got sexually involved with them. Thus, when he was to meet his possible soul-mates they were already with other males. He, on the other hand, was the most popular male even among the top elite female athletes in different countries, when there were no agents around who tried to marry him.
