How To Get Back Together After A Break Up And Stay Together

Break ups can be very messy, complicated and heated. Regardless of the reasons you have for the break up, the true nature of why your relationship ended are often not addressed.Although you make right now that getting your ex back is impossible, let's examine some must do's to get back together after a break up and stay together.Avoid Impulse and Think Clearly:  Many couples will go through several break up stages before their relationship is truly over. It's common when our emotions are running high that we will act and think impulsively trying to do everything to try and get our partner to stay. Avoid unnecessary calls, messages and emails to your ex, in other words, stop harassing your ex, chances are they might be unsure if they made the right decision ending the relationship.Second Thoughts and Space:  Give your ex space, it might be hard right now as you want nothing more to speak to your ex and try and get things back on track right now but you must not force the issue.  Avoid contact with your ex, if you find that your ex is still in communication with you, never bring up the idea of reuniting, you will in time, not right now though.Your Relationship is broken and needs mending:  With a clear head both you and your ex can have some space to think about what went wrong with your relationship. While you can not be sure your ex is constantly thinking about the break up like you, you can begin to establish were things went wrong.  Avoid the blame game and reconnect:  Communication is the heart of any successful relationship, many break ups are a result of a wake up call in the most heart wrenching fashion.  Being honest with your ex, understanding their concerns, problems, issues and avoiding the blame game is a must, leave your ego at the door if you want toreunite with your ex.