How to Get Your Ex Back in 3 Simple Ways

You have recently broke up with your girlfriend/boyfriend.  And after cooling off, you have been consistently thinking of your ex and want to get your ex back.  Being emotional about getting your ex back could be a disastrous thing as you can lose your logic and forget about the basic rules you need to observe before acting to get your ex back.  Its good to take a step back and take a good look at what’s going on and start saving the relationship instead of destroying it.

Think of what was the cause of the break up.

Before you approach your ex, you need to think about what wrong have you done to lead to the conclusion of your relationship.  There must be many things to have lead to this end.  Think about it and write them out on a piece of paper the faults you have made in this relationship.  What was the reason she gave to you for breaking up.  Was it you have changed and ignore her unintentionally?  Have you been doing the things she hates most and ignoring her feelings?  Look at the things you have done and find a solution to those.

Finding Yourself Back

Over the months or years of the relationship, you tend to have forgotten or overlook the fact that both of you are together because of who you were at the point when both of you met.  Both of you attracted each other because of certain characteristic that both of you have displayed.  You may have forgotten or stop doing the things you have done that she / he loved you for, like stop calling her everyday, or passing sweet comments to her, not listening to her/ his requests.  You need to find the person you were in the past, the reason or things you use to do for her.  This will re-ignite the reason why she fell in love with you.

Meeting Your Ex Back

After a good cooling off period, you may want to ask your ex out for a coffee or a meal.  The cooling off period is vital as both of you will have thought about the things that should have or shouldn’t have done.  When you guys meet up, start something unrelated and slowly you may start with the things you guys use to do, the silly fights you guys had.  When it develops well, you guys may talk about why did you guys break up.  What was the reason why she / he wanted to let you go.  There is bound to be a certain strong enough reason why he/ she has courage to move on.  Try to find out why and how you can change for it.  Don’t do all these in a day!  Take some time to develop the rapport and relationship.  Just like how you woo her in the past.  It takes time to nurture the feelings back and he / she will start missing you and wanting to talk to you more.