How to Get Your Ex to Reconsider Your Break Up

Oct 14
08:57

2009

Dimmy Apostolovski

Dimmy Apostolovski

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So your ex has dropped the bombshell that they want to end your relationship and are refusing to listen to you and your attempts to convince them to stay? It's perfectly natural to feel desperate trying to give your partner reasons to stay with you but you must be extremely careful to avoid making some devastating mistakes that can push your ex away forever.

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First things first,How to Get Your Ex to Reconsider Your Break Up Articles no amount of pleading, begging, crying or empty promises will get your ex to reconsidering your break up. If you are guilty of doing this you must stop immediately, while this can work and has worked for couples in the past it is not a long term solution by any stretch of the imagination.

The best way you can get your ex to reconsider your break up is to acknowledge that your relationship is broken, put away the wishful thinking of wanting everything to magically be better overnight. Your ex must know that you understand what lead to the break up and why.

Secondly, you must be clear with your intentions of what must change and why before your ex will entertain the notion of giving your relationship one more go. Do not make the silly mistake of blindly apologizing for everything that went wrong in your relationship, this is the last thing your ex wants to hear and it will infuriate your ex that you are "just not getting it".

The most important factor is that you understand your ex and see things through their eyes and not just yours. Being selfish and wanting to hold onto them by any means necessary will do little to get your ex to reconsider your break up and make them want you back.

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