How To Make Your Ex Girlfriend Want You Back

Getting an ex girlfriend back seems like a hard thing to do, but once you know how to do it correctly?  It's actually rather easy.  Right now you're probably looking at things uni-directionally (i.e. from your perspective), and your only focus is to get her back.  But by focusing on your ex's needs and wants, you can successfully get her attention in some very positive ways.How To Make Her Need You AgainThere are several things you can do to place yourself back in your ex's mind again, and dropping out of sight is just one of them. Be sure to establish a no-contact rule before doing anything else, or whatever other methods you use will fall woefully flat.Beyond that, you need to start thinking of the future. Eventually, there will be a time when you and your ex meet up again. When that reconnection occurs, will you be the exact same person she dumped? Or will you have worked on things to improve yourself, both mentally and physically, so that she sees a whole new you?No, I'm not saying you should change for your ex girlfriend. Changing into something you're really aren't is definitely not the way to win someone back. That being said however, there are ways of working on your own situation that will help create instant desire and need when your ex first sees you again. There are also things you can do to Make Your Ex Girlfriend Jealous. (Be careful with these!)Why She Wants You... Why It Works...Knowing what to do during a break up isn't always easy, especially since you'll be very emotional and won't be thinking straight. First, try to calm down and be very level-headed with any decision you make. But to really know what to do next, you need to understand what's going through your ex's mind. Below are some pretty good guidelines for that.Initially, your girlfriend won't want anything to do with you. In her mind, she needs to make the break up stick. Most guys think this is the best time to strike, believing her to be weakest at this point. But in reality, even if you could change your girlfriend's mind she would only get angry: both at you for pushing her out of her decision, and at herself for not sticking to it. Another break up would follow very quickly on the heels of the first one, and your ex will be in a worse state of mind, too.Right after the break up your ex girlfriend will tell her friends, and then her family about leaving you. Once she does this, there's no easy way for her to go back. She doesn't want to look like a hypocrite, so she'll try and steer clear from as much contact with you as possible. This is NOT the time to call her, email her, or try to get her to change her mind. Your ex wants to be left alone, and it's always best to give her this initial breathing room.A week or two after she dumps you, your ex will begin processing the break up. THIS is where she'll start thinking about you... even more so, if you happened to stick to the no-contact rule. She'll wonder where you are... why you haven't called... and if you even needed her in the first place! All of these are good things, because you're shaking the foundation of her decision to break up - and you didn't even do anything but leave her alone.A month after the break up, your ex will consider you gone. But at the same time, if there's any love left in her heart for you, this is where she'll really start wanting you back. She'll actually feel foolish about breaking up, and might be hesitant to reach out to you. If she does, great. But if not, this is your prime opportunity for getting back in touch with her. She's at her weakest, and it won't take much to bring out her true feelings and emotions for you.Other Methods for Getting Your Ex Girlfriend BackIn the end, it doesn't matter how you broke up or how long ago the two of you went your separate ways. What matters is what you do after the end of your relationship, and which actions you take to put your ex girlfriend back in your arms again.Every break up is unique. While there are some solid rules that apply to all breakup situations, there will be different solutions to help fix all different types of relationship difficulties. Maybe you parted ways because of constant fighting. Maybe your girlfriend was bored and wanted a change. Maybe you even cheated on her... or she was looking to date someone else and this is why she left. No matter what the case, there's a way back into her heart again - as long as you know where to look.