The Census Bureau shows there are more and more married couples that are more than 5 years apart in age. My daughter is 10 years younger than my son-in-law, but It seems to work great for them. A raised eyebrow, second looks, nods of "knowing approval", and unpleasant frowns can all be expected. It seems as if some acceptable standard has been violated if there is a discernible age difference in a relationship.
Hello everyoneYesterdays question was "When is the age difference unacceptable in a relationship". I have to say I am surprised at the response to this question, as I was expecting comments in a society point of view. But I am not surprised at all at how the response is on this subject is viewed individually.
Most everyone feels that an age difference is not an issue as long as the couple is in love. And like I said in individual points of view that does not surprise me at all. But as a society, a much different view taken.
I agree to a point that age is not a qualifier in a relationship. However, I do think that some other factors should be added in before you waive the age gap "qualifier".
I think Maturity of course should be at the top of that list. Society as a whole will respond to the maturity issue by assuming that the younger of the couple should be mature enough to except and apply the responsibilities of a relationship. And that's fine, I have no problem with that kind of response, But many people overlook the fact that the elder of the couple may not be the mature one.
Compatibility is another factor in a would be relationship. While it is true that opposites do attract sometimes, this attraction usually doesn't hold up to the reality of everyday life and commitment. Incompatible relationships are going to fail at some point. Compatibility would include but not limited to, spiritual beliefs, physical connection, and a social commonality.
My closing personal thoughts on this question of the day would be. Different people mature at different ages, and it's quite possible to have quite a lot of life experience by the age of 25, depending on your background and upbringing; just like it's possible to be a totally sheltered and immature 40+ year old. I agree that if it feels right, then do it, regardless of the age gap. Personally speaking, I'd feel uncomfortable with too big a gap as I don't enjoy being judged by other people. I'd always feel uncomfortable going out in public, so I doubt it would last.
And now that would lead me to today's question of the day.
You've just been told the relationship isn't working and you're better off being friends. Do you look them in the eye, smile, and thank them? Do you try to win them back? Do you book a flight to Vegas?...
Today's Question of the day is:
What's the first thing you should do after getting dumped?
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