What To Listen For In A Medium Reading

If the medium reader gives you extraordinary personal details then open yourself up to this and do not use that doubting inner voice as this will crush what knowledge is intended.

If you do not then you are doing a disservice to yourself and your loved one, if you are aware that you are block emotionally then accept this and come back another time when you are ready and more open.

Lots of sceptics claim psychics and mediums will not deal with them as they will reveal their shortcomings, this is not the truth, a negative sceptic will have the most repulsive personal energy that is vile and repelling, it wont matter what information comes through for this type of philistine as they will deny, deny, deny as this is their objective and they are so blocked off they simply would never accept or see the truth.

For a medium, spending time with a sceptic is like banging their head against a brick wall.

Energies should not be wasted on such people.

Be aware that if you ask a question you will receive the answer in a non dressed up format, this will be due to a good medium feeding through the information exactly as it is received which is the true discipline of good mediumship. It is not for the medium to offer an opinion or get involved as the communication should be between you and the spirit side, the mediums is merely an instrument or channel.

Most people ask about their relationship knowing the answer within anyway. Be prepared to hear things that perhaps you may not want to as spirit side speak only with truth.

You will want to be able to connect with your medium so spend a little time reading profiles about their skills, there should also be a short piece that the medium has written about themselves so read this too and see if you get a feel for them and feel drawn to them, looking at their picture also helps. Remember never give your medium any personal information up front, let them do the talking and simply answer with a yes or a no if they ask are they on the right lines, let them feed the information through to you as this will add impact to the reading.

You will not be able to speak to a specific loved one, hopefully you will get that link but it is not guaranteed, a connection only occurs when the loved one and the sitter both want to connect and this is not always possible. Take comfort that another loved one may visit and listen to the love and support from them.