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Advice Articles | January 13, 2010

How much do you take each other for granted? How well do you really know each other?

How well do you really know each other? How much do you take each other for granted?

Time for Exercise: 15 minutes to one hour

Properties Required: pen and paper

Steps:
Answer the following questions:

What color(s) are your lover’s eyes?

What color is your lover’s hair? Is the hair on your lover’s body all the same color? Compare the hair on his head, face, arms, legs, chest, pubis, etc.

How much does your partner weigh?

How tall is he?

What is the name of the perfume or after-shave or scent your partner usually wears? Could you pick out your partner if you were blindfolded by scent alone?

What is her favorite…
Food
Color
Car
Animal
Dessert
Movie
Ice Cream
Book
Perfume
Actress
Actor
TV Show
Game
Sport
Soft Drink
Alcoholic Drink
Flower
Music
Painter
Singer
Band
Poet

When your lover sleeps, does he lie mostly on his back, right side, or left side?

What identifying marks are on your lover’s body—scars, moles, tattoos? Where are they?

What is your lover’s birthday

What are your anniversaries together?

First Meeting
First Date
First Sex
Going Steady
Engaged
Wedding
Birth of Children

Who is his best friend?

What are your partner’s likes and dislikes?

List three things your partner likes.

List three things your partner does not like.

How does your partner communicate what she likes and doesn’t like as a lover (words, sound, body language)?

Variation:

Share your answers with your lover.

Excerpted from our new book Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul, by Al Link and Pala Copeland, Llewellyn, 2007

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ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Al Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra. They regularly host lover's romantic weekends near Ottawa Canada, and weeklong retreats in exotic locations. For more info Visit www.tantra-sex.com, www.sexyspiritualrelationships.com and their blog www.askaboutloveandsex.com or send email: 4freedoms@tantraloving.com