Say No to Naive

                      Say No to Naive

More and more people are searching the keys to success nowadays, but basically speaking, a success man firstly need a mature mind and mature way of thinking. The naive thoughts will bring you nothing when facing a strong competitor, only be mature, you will grasp the corner of success. The fundamental feature of immature people is that they do not have self-regulation.

From the next aspects we can find the characters of having no self-regulation.

1. Unwilling to change their own;

You have to change the way of thinking and behavior patterns. You need to change your bad habits .in fact, people are not much different between the ability, and the difference is the different way of thinking. When a thing happens, you go to ask winners and losers, their answer is not the same or even contrary. Today’s loose is because our thinking is not successful. A good formula is: When you plant a think seed, you will have the harvest of action, plant action then, you will have the harvest of habits, plant habits when you go then, you will have the harvest of personality, when you then go on personal cultivation, and it will determine your fate.

But if you planted the seeds of a failure, you will get a failure, if you planted a seed of success, then you will be successful.

You must believe that if someone can succeed in this project, you will be successful. Only continual action can develop habits, habits repeated 21 days later, it will develop. Then continue to do it, your personality will form.

Many people have a lot of bad habits, such as: watching TV, playing mahjong, drink, foam dance, they also know that these habits are not good, but why they do not want to change? Because many people would rather tolerate the bad way of life, and they are not willing to change the pain for him, so they do not want to change.

2. Willing to talk behind someone else:

In life, if you do like about someone else, then, one day will pass back. 

3. being negative, complaining:

What kind of people you will like in your life? Is the one who frown all day, all day complaining about others, or like those who always have a very happy mind? If your life is filled with negative people those who always complain, you have to change your character flaws. If you do not change, you are difficult to adapt to this society. You are also very difficult to work with other people.

In life, you will know, how you deal with life, and life will treat you in that way, how you treat others, others will treat you the same. So you do not have to be negative and complaining. You must be active, always living a positive life, and there is a sentence: winners never complain, complaining will never succeed.

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