Ex Love Back - With a Little Work it Can Be Done

If you want to get your ex love back, you need to play it smart. In the state you might be in right now that could be challenging, but you've got to be in control and patient. The best thing to do now is wait.

Take a couple of weeks to let your ex be without you so he can realize how much he appreciates you. Also, use this time to work at being happy, don't dwell on the negatives, build your self-esteem. A great thing to do is spend time around good friends who are supportive. Focus on these friends and realize all the great things you have. I know that sounds a little too easy, but work on it and don't just focus on your breakup.

Remember, breakups aren't permanent. Use that to give you some hope. A couple things to keep in mind when communicating with your ex is don't fight and don't whine. You want him to remember the good things about you. Anyway, fighting is not productive. This would seem to be very obvious, but when you're desperate the obvious isn't always apparent. If you can't avoid getting in an argument your relationship might not be right and you should stay apart.

You need to take time and understand what went wrong in your relationship and figure out how to correct those things. If you aren't willing to sincerely work on improving those things it will be very hard to repair your relationship.

For example, if he wanted you to be more adventurous, you need to think of things you can do so he will start seeing you as a bit more of a free spirit.