How to Get a Woman Back - Look In The Mirror First

Probably the best response to the question, "how to get a woman back?" is to figure out what went wrong and fix it. That's the short answer. Of course there is a much longer answer. Whether you read some books or magazines to get ideas on getting her back, the best thing is to make a list of what she was unhappy with. This is not a list of what you were unhappy with. The focus is on her now and what she wanted.

Now that you have your list, go through each item and think of how you can improve or fix this situation. If you have written down something like fix the rain gutter I kept telling her I'd fix. The rain gutter might not be the real problem. The real problem my be an underlying one. It would probably be that you don't follow through on stuff you say you are going to do. Sure, you might follow through on your stuff, but when she wants something done, you might keep putting it off.

Does that make sense?

I hope you aren't thinking this will be a quick fix or that these changes will happen overnight. Some of these 'fixes' might need special training or counseling. Say you drink too much. That could be a big thing to tackle. But it you're committed it's worth it.

The thing that will begin to happen while your fixing your stuff, is that you will notice that you are starting to feel better about yourself. This is another factor that will help you get her back. She will see you as more self assured and confident and better person.