Tips On Getting My Ex Girlfriend Back – All You Need To Know to be Successful!

If you just broke up with your girlfriend, don’t panic. I know you’re feeling pretty awful right now, food doesn’t taste right and music…well you don’t even play the radio because every song reminds you of her. If you’re telling yourself that you need tips on getting my ex girlfriend back then you just lucked out.

To be perfectly honest guys, it’s never easy and it’s certainly not a slam dunk but there are some common things that you can do.

And to try and get a smile out of you, there’s over a 90% chance that you will get back with you ex girlfriend if you do things right. So read on.

You are about to discover some step-by-step plans that have helped so many guys to date, I’ve stopped counting.

Here you go and remember, you might have to tweak them from time to time but you’ll get the idea as you go through these:

Piece of cake; go out with your friends. One of the biggest problems with busting up with a girl is that feeling of loneliness and that inner dialogue asking you all the time,”Now what am I going to do?” Well the answer to yourself is easy, call up your buddies and go out to a club and have a great time. At least let on like you are even if you’re not because image is very important right now and news travels very quickly when you’re under the relationship break up microscope

Close off contact. This is hard because you want to talk to her so bad. You just can’t right now because you are not ready yet. You have too much stuff to figure out. Stay away from the phone, no texting, no Facebook or Twitter, no contact with your ex. Because you can’t be sure what might fly out of your mouth at this point that could mess everything up for good. You’ll have the rest of your life to talk to her if you do this right.

You must take inventory. Remember it always takes two to tangle. Whether you like it or not, you had a part in this break up. One of the biggest assignments in all of this is to figure out what it was. You must be very clear on this one and step up to the plate. If you decide not to take any ownership on this step then you may have to consider just moving on because this is a biggie.

Decide how you would do it different if you got another chance. Now you have to decide how you can be a better mate now that you know all of this stuff about yourself. Remember when you look into the mirror there’s only one guy staring back. You gotta do what you gotta do and make whatever changes are necessary for you to get another shot at this relationship.

Ah the initial attraction. Remember what you were like when you two first met? I bet she would say that you were larger than life. Remember all the things you liked to do that probably attracted her to you in the first place? I bet she does. But then something happens. If you two were together for quite awhile, a lot of times this kind of stuff is forgotten because you got so used to doing things together. You must work on these things to see if you can re-ignite that spark of attraction again.

First Contact. After enough time had passed that you two have settled down and you have completed all the steps above, it’s time to make initial contact. All you’re trying to do here is set up a time where you two can meet somewhere you two haven’t been before away from prying eyes. That’s it.

The big date. That’s just what it is. A date to have a chance to sit down with your ex and have a nice light chat. Now this is really the hard one. You have to be nice and polite and reserved and take it cool but please pay attention. The whole point of this meeting is to find out if she still has feelings for you. If she does then you two are out of the gate together.

The great news is that usually if you follow these steps and do it right you will have a good chance at getting her back because this has worked for so many guys already.