What Can I Say to Get My Ex to Call Me Back? - Find Out The Right Words!

Relationships begin and end all over the world every second. Often, the ending relationship will be able to begin again, but how? Is there some "magic phrase" a person can use when every thought is "I need to get my ex back"? There may not be a specific set of words to use, but there are methods that have been proven successful.

The way ex boyfriends and girlfriends usually communicate is by phone. Only, the communication is usually limited because one side is calling and calling and the other side refuses to return phone calls. The focus here, then, is to get your ex to return your phone calls. The trap desperate, lonely people fall into is one of begging or faking an emergency thinking this is how I will get my ex back. As you beg and fake, your ex gets more angry and distant and sure that they made the right decision in breaking the relationship off. Not only that but it puts you in a horrible psychological position. Instead of appearing weak and vulnerable, a tactic must be used to appeal to your ex's human nature.

The human mind focuses on and gives attention to many stimuli. Two of the most influential forces are curiosity and self interest. Combining the two is a recipe for success. Imagine the outcome of this phone message: "Sam, please, please call me when you get this. I've left three messages already and I wish you wouldn't ignore me. I can't stand not talking to you. I'll be waiting for your call." You can just FEEL how unattractive that is.

Now compare it with this: "Hi, Sam. It's Jane. I was just downtown with a friend and I noticed (insert favorite band here; or anything else that would be of interest to your ex) is coming to town. Knew you'd love to hear it. Anyway, hope all is well." The reaction from Sam will be "Wow, my band is in town? And, she called and was being cool. Not a psycho. I wonder if she's back to normal." His curiosity will be too much for him and he will return your call.

Before you leave this message on your ex's answering machine, make sure you have a strategy for what you plan to say when he or she does call you back. If you don't know beforehand, you could end up blowing it when they call back. What you do when your ex calls you back is more important than getting the call. Do this: don't answer the phone. Instead, call them back the next day, make the conversation short.