“In a world where you can be anything… be yourself!” “He /she makes me want to be the best person I can,” is music to my ears when I am working with people in the dating game. In this day and age life can be challenging and couples need to be real partners to succeed in life.So before you start dating get yourself prepared!
Who are you? What makes you laugh, cry, indignant, angry, joyful for starters? Do you want to make a difference in the world? If so, how? Are you really single?
I mean really! Time to say good- bye to the hanger/ons and time to close all the Exit doors.
Are you a spiritual person? Are you willing to make room in your life for someone?
Set on a path to get clarity on what defines you as being special from others, find your voice and be that person!It helps the person looking for that very person find you!
2. Partner Clarity/the Offer You Are Looking For!Start your list: must have, must not have, and preferences.
Somewhere in the must have/must not have, you might want to put the “really single” thing. So many people who are seriously interested in finding their life partner “forget” to ask or require this boundary. If you are a monogamous person, best you require the same from your partner. In this list you also want to put things like no sociopaths, liars, issues that are not predictive of a long lasting relationship.
Preferences include sports, classical music, reading, working out, theater, museums, travel etc. You may not match up in preferences and over time you may join your partner in his/her preferences because you love being together. I don’t call preferences deal breakers, and I do have concerns that if you don’t get the must/have, must not have list correct you could run into deal breakers.
3. Confidence and ClarityContinue Reading..
Navigating Recovery from a Borderline Partner
Navigating a relationship with a spouse who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can be a complex and emotionally taxing journey. The decision to stay or leave the marriage is deeply personal and often hinges on factors such as the well-being of children and personal values. Establishing emotional boundaries is crucial for maintaining mental health, as taking on a partner's emotional burdens can lead to failure. It's essential to recognize that each person is responsible for managing their own emotions and seeking professional help when needed. For a comprehensive guide on healing from a relationship with a borderline spouse, read the full article here.
My Spouse has Borderline Personality Disorder!
“ If you allow people to make more withdrawals than deposits in your life, you will be out of balance and in the negative. Know when to close the account.”
Have You Heard About Backbone Power The Science of Saying No Audiobook?
Start saying Yes to yourself and No to being used/abused/exploited!
