Sensual massages are the rage nowadays, and supplied virtually anywhere in the world. Does one really need precise training? Or should it be more of a natural exercise?
Before being adept at anything,
one must first learn basics. In the art of sensual massage, the same principle applies. One has to master certain methodologies utilizing limbs like fingers, hands or even feet anything that might awaken the senses. On top of that, one should additionally be educated in the properties of massage oils ; too much would cause your subject to 'slip' away, and too little might inflict pain and make them run away from you.
In my experience, (which I'd add, without sounding superior, quite huge) coaching has it's advantages. But then again, going in blind has its up sides too.
With training, probabilities of causing grievous hurt deserving of an infirmary visit are minimized. Imagine rushing into the emergency room, body soaked in a mix of Patchouli and Lavender, and hollering while clutching your groin, or breasts.
Not sexy.
Downright shaming.
In certain circumstances, coaching helps you to identify certain major items, express areas to attack, (sensually talking of course) and know that in under five mins, the person on the receiving end is halfway to experiencing Nirvana. This performs marvels to one's ego, I guarantee you. Plus it adds a complete new dimension to an otherwise missionary stance if you know what I mean (wink).
The drawback is the full experience can become moderately stiff and anticipated 2 words one NEVER wants to associate with sensuous MASSAGE. The mystery is lost, and though the recipient may not be able to spot the difference, (she or he is snoozing happily in Rah-Rah Land) the giver may feel somewhat shortchanged.
Now, for the other side of the coin ; diving into the erotic universe of sensual massage a virgin also has its pro and cons.
Let's start with the cons.
- You could cause serious injury by stomping too hard, or rubbing too much.
- Your partner might fall prey to sleep because you spent too much time 'caressing' his/her eyebrows.
- You might get too beat from no reply received and carry on to continue while watching 'Ugly Betty'.
- Both parties sigh and say, Let's go get a burger.
You get my drift. The list is unending.
Pros : -
- The experience of discovering erogenous areas (without prior knowledge, not even a peek from your pa's Big Book of Human Anatomy) can be an overwhelming experience, particularly when you find them in the most unexpected places.
- Using God-given instincts to start the Pleasure Principle is a basic human right.
- Nobody gets bored, as each discovery is amazing, similar to Columbus discovering America.
Again, many chances.
In hearsay, a little coaching can be positive, and even appreciated, but it is my unbiased opinion that training for sensual massage isn't pivotal.
Practice on one another, simultaneously if possible. The capability of abstract thinking is after all , a human trait that shouldn't ever be enfeebled and ignored.
