Since I work at home I spend the whole day with my girls and everyday I observe what a splendid greeting they give my husband when he comes home after a long day at work. What does he think about it?
Since I work at home I spend the whole day with my girls and everyday I observe what a splendid greeting they give my husband when he comes home after a long day at work. What does he think about it? He loves it; sometimes he knocks on the door instead of letting himself in on purpose so, that they can run to the door before he comes inside. They start shouting at the top of their lungs: DADDY, DADDY! With the biggest smiles and unable to stay still, so much excitement! He seems to enjoy every minute of it and confesses that he starts thinking about their warm welcome while driving home from work.
Yes my story maybe a little funny and similar to others! However, when you pay close attention to the interaction of children with people in general you can easily see that part of what makes them so likeable besides being cute. It is how happy or excited they get in the presence of others whether it is a parent, family member or a good friend.
Do you see where I am going with this? I am pretty sure you are! Imagine saying hi to someone and the person seems emotionless or even sad. How would this make you feel? I am sure you won’t feel so great after such a cold greeting. Now imagine saying hi to someone that gives you a killer smile. I bet you are feeling better already. Better yet! Add a hug along with an “I am happy to see you” statement. You just felt like the most important person at the moment and probably want to spend more time with this individual.
Life can get quite difficult at times and we get so caught up on all that is wrong that we forget too show our appreciation for the things that are positive in our lives, including those we love. So in case you did not get the message: When you are truly happy to see a love one. Show it! Give a good friend a present for no reason. Whether you use words or material things to express your feelings; just demonstrate how happy you are to have him or her in your life.
Appreciate Today,
Kenia Morales
New Year’s resolution during the summer
Many people create their New Year’s resolution right after December 31st. That is great! But, wouldn’t you be interested on getting faster results? We are in the summer now. Wouldn’t you like to complete your goal or advance by Christmas season? I know it will feel great, to track your own progress.The Key is In Your Hands
People have a natural tendency to:Complain about others being self absorbed.Complain about living in a materialistic World.Complain about having dishonest friends and blah, blah, blah!Seriously, if I keep going It will never come to an end.Unfit Mothers: A guide to becoming a better mom
The other day I was watching Oprah one of my favorite shows for many reasons but, that would be another subject. The topic was unfit mothers. Trust me it was more than evident that some of the guests there had some serious issues due to the amount of abuse or neglect that they place their children in.