Julian Foxx

How to Have Confidence On A Date

A quick dating advice you need to help you avoid or reduce the anxiety that you feel around your date.

Anxiety has always been a hassle when we are dating. It keeps us from doing some tactics in impressing or maybe seducing our date - be it a learned or practiced tactic. It makes us forget the things that we practiced or some things that we have planned to do. Sometimes, anxiety is even visible in our face - sweating, blushing, etc. So to avoid feeling anxious around your date, here's a quick dating advice:

This is a technique called "Imagine that..."

From the title of the technique, you can almost guess how its done. Yes, this is the time to use your imagination. Simply imagine something specific about her.

For example, If you are square-faced. You can imagine that she's totally attracted to square-faced men. You can imagine that she is turned-on to men wearing black shirt or a black polo.

Imagine that some friends of her or maybe some people call her "Ginger" because she has red hair."

If you notice that she's got some mannerism like adjusting her shirt more often, or fixing her hair with her fingers, run your imagination through them. Interpret these mannerisms that you find in her in your own way. So every time she adjusts her shirt could mean she's feeling horny at the moment. Every time she fixes her hair with her fingers could mean that she wanted to attract or seduce you.

But before you get too excited in practicing, applying, or experimenting this powerful technique, here's a reality check:

1. Remember that this is just a technique for you to reduce or avoid anxiety while you are around her. This is designed to boost your confidence. So these visualizations that you will have are for you alone to be aware of. These aren't real in the first place. You wouldn't actually give away your imaginations by calling her Ginger or assuming that she's really into you. So be careful.

2. The above examples are just mere examples. The "Imagine that..." technique will be more effective if you apply it according to your own situation. As what the pickup artist said, "I call it 'Imagine that...' because you have to use your imagination to come up with your own unique visualizations."

Now you have the idea, all you have to do is use it. This technique is very useful not only when you feel anxious towards your date but if you feel anxious to approach a woman.

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