Strip Clubs - Preparing For Your First Time

First, it may help you to get in the right frame of mind about the girls working at strip clubs. For some men (and even some women), your upbringing has caused you to view these girls in a particular light. And that light may be a bad or degrading one. You should get rid of any thoughts of this nature before you go through the doors. Don’t be that woman-hating guy, because those are the ones who tend to break the rules and get hurt by the bouncer. Go in with some respect. If you don’t respect the girls and what they’re doing, then why are you going?

Do not go into the strip clubs with the thought that you might be able to pick up a dancer. Read that sentence again and internalize it. It will not happen and if you try to make it happen, you’re either going to wind up feeling foolish or you’re going to find yourself tossed out onto the sidewalk. The girls have seen it all and they are not interested in you. Maybe they would be in another time and place, but not here and not now. Enjoy them for what they are and for the entertainment they’re providing. But no amount of money and no amount of charm is going to get them to sleep with you (unless it really is that type of place, in which case they will not be shy about letting you know).

Don’t go into the strip clubs with only your debit card as a form of payment. Not everything you see on TV can be trusted, but paying cash tips is certainly accurate. If you don’t have singles to tip with, you’re going to find yourself quickly shunned by the dancers and your fun quotient is going to spiral down very quickly.