The Importance for Girls to be Independent

The current society we live in is full of cruel competitions; compared with the people in old days, people now are more inclined to the pursuit of materialism. Abundant material plays an unprecedentedly important role in people’s life. When a girl is going to get married with a man, the only element she considers is whether he has enough economic ability. A girl was once famous in the whole China, she once said in a well-known TV programme “I would rather cry in BWM, but I do not want to laugh on the back seat of bike”, which once triggered lots of dispute and also signifies the deficiency of spiritualism. People become more and more snobbish; they pay much attention to money, material, but not affections between people. This phenomenon is much more common in the entertainment circle; many female artists try every effort to marry into the purple. A famous Hong Kong artist Isabella is a case in point, she once fell in deep love with a very rich guy, and she gave birth to three children. But finally, they broke up. She wasted many young days, but got nothing. This kind of case is very common in the current society. Girls always attach much more importance to various kinds of material such as expensive jewelry, luxury and famous cars. Those cheap Tibetan beads jewelry, satin ribbon wholesale can never be pleasing to their eyes. Men continue to make money in order to buy a house, buy a car and marry a good wife. In the new era, women buy famous brand clothes, high-end cosmetics, but they treat them lower. The so-called “gender equality” in a sense refers to that both man and woman have their own opportunities to be independent. The new times is an age of mental war, man has more strength than women. But god gives us equal minds. As a woman, you can buy all sorts of things, but do not think about relying on man. Also it doesn’t mean every woman should become an iron lady, it means women should learn to make plans for their life. However, there are many women that they are not independent enough, the purpose of them is to find a wealthy man and they depend on man for everything. Therefore, this kind woman always cannot lead a happy life, because their happiness depends on how much money their husband has and how generous their hundred is. While if you are among highly-paid class, you have your own dream and independent, you will be eligible to choose a man. You have much more possibility to get happiness, for you can earn happiness by yourself. In addition, women also have a certain knowledge structure. Besides your major, you must also understand other knowledge. You need to know economy, so you can help your husband with the financial management, business. You need to know computer, so you can follow up the progress of the new era. You need to understand the psychology, so you can establish a warm and harmonious family. Women in this new era should have the quality of independence so as to live an easier life with your husband. When you are alone, you can feed yourself. Every person is independent individual, and the society has so cut-throating competition. Only you know how to love yourself and how to take care of yourself, you can love others better.