Do You Want to Know How to Get Your Ex Back?

First off give yourself an adequate amount of time to cry in your soup. You've had a loss and it's only fitting that you grieve that.

So after you've had all the time you want to eat chocolate, watch The Notebook, Titanic and Dear John 3 times over, talk about it with your girlfriends, text him or email him begging to get back, then pick yourself up and start a new plan.

Time to get it together.

That's of course if this guy is worthy of having a relationship with you. You will know though after you try this plan of attack.

No guy is going to want to sit around and hear you out about how he's done you wrong. Or how sad you are. So switch gears.

It's time to feel good FOR YOU. Time to do all the things you never got to do because you were waiting to do them with him.

Time to be the person you were when he first met you.

Chances are that you'll be feeling so good about life and yourself you won't care as much if you're with him or not.

And whatever you do, DON'T contact him.

He will energetically feel the change in energy. He will feel an empty space where there wasn't a space before. One where your energy was psychically all over him. You'll start to feel like a mystery to him and he'll start to wonder what you're up to.

He'll start to feel a bit insecure that perhaps you didn't need him as much as he thought you did. And wonder if he made the right decision.

Sure as eggs when this happens you'll get a text, phone call or email.

And when you do, tell him it's great to hear from him but you're really busy and ask if it's OK if you get back to him in a weeks time.

This will really hook him in. You're not the person he thought you were. And it's human nature to want what we can't have.