Your belief system is the foundational set of instructions from which you make decisions about many things in your life: money, self-worth, success, love. Are you operating on decisions made when you were a child? It's time to re-strengthen that foundation.
Do you ever reexamine your belief system? It's the one that determines all of the experiences and attainments you enjoy (or not) in life. It's a silent presence, sitting in a governing role. We are often unaware of the decisive role it plays in all the facets of our life.
Here's what most of us don't fully comprehend--our beliefs about such issues as money, success, beauty, self-worth, integrity and so much more are formed at very early stages in our lives and then become as strong and solid as cement.
This belief "cement" is the mortar in the foundation of our thinking. I often write about foundation as being essential to any structure, including the structure of your thoughts and actions.
Think of the building you're in at this moment. What if it had a faulty foundation? What if it was formed based on 20-30-40 year old thinking, not upon more updated and pertinent data? How secure would you feel?
Studies show that our beliefs are set as a child, say 5-6 years old, and are then never questioned. We accept them as pure fact and they continue to function that way. We hear our parents fight about money, for example, and our belief is set in stone at that moment. Success-blocking beliefs I've come across in the area of money for example are:
* There's never enough
* Too much creates problems
* Money is evil
* I'm not deserving
* Money causes arguments
* Those who have money are bad, stingy, dishonest
* Those who have little money are lazy, not to be trusted, criminals
* Money is not spiritual
You can substitute the word 'success' for any of these beliefs. For example: "If I become too successful, I'll not have time for what is really important in life."
How does one change these beliefs? Ask very simple questions:
* What is true?
* How old was I when I first made this decision?
* For me, do I really think that there is not enough?
* For me, is it true that money is evil?
* For me, do I sincerely believe that if I become too wealthy the quality of my life will disappear?
Think about slowing down long enough to examine the beliefs you entertain that might block the flow of cash to you; that determine how worthy you are, how successful; or if you're blocking the flow of love to you by keeping an old belief system in place that cannot be substantiated.
Question those beliefs the way you would question a five-year-old child standing before you with same statement. There is no blame herejust curiosity and clarity.
Enjoy your discoveries and have a great week!
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