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We have choices in life. We can look for the lesson and beauty in every single thing that happens to us. Or we can go through life kicking and screaming about everything that has, is, could, or will happen to us. Life is meant to be a journey, something we learn from and grow from. It is meant to be a journey of self discovery and joy, but you have to choose.
Two sisters growing up in the same house. Their mother is an excellent seamstress and sews for many people in the town. She also make all of the clothes her two daughters wear which gives her great pride in dressing them in the latest fashions at a fraction of the cost. The mother loves seeing her daughters in her creations. Sewing for her daughters is an act of love for the mother.
One sister loves the fact that her mother sews her such beautiful clothes. She calls then her “designer” clothes. She feels the love and care that goes into each new garment. She feels so special putting on the new dresses and showing her friends.
The other sister hates the fact that her mother sews her clothes. She feels others will think they can’t afford store bought clothes. She hates being even slightly different than her friends even though it means she has nicer clothes. She is embarrassed and feels that if her mother really cared she would buy her clothes from the store.
Two sisters living under the same roof, experiencing the exact same circumstances in different ways. One has chosen to make one meaning out of it and the other, a totally different meaning.
We have choices too. How will we see things in our lives, our businesses, relationships, our abundance or lack of it. What are we willing to do to see the positive side of the coin. More to the point, what are we willing to do to change how we see things?
Scientist have been studying vibrational frequencies of negative and positive emotions. There are instruments that can measure these frequencies. When we hold a negative though for more than 17 seconds our energy vibration goes down, and when we hold a positive thought for more than 17 seconds the vibration is at a higher frequency. Ever been around someone who was depressed and seeing the negative? We all have. They can literally drain our energy if we hang out with them. On the other hand, a positive person, can lift our spirits just being in the room with them. Is it any wonder that positive people attract good things and people into their lives? And the negative people seem to attract every negative thing to them. Every time you talk to them they have another poor me story. It’s their choice and yours too. What will you choose to make out of your life.
“It is never to late to become the person you were meant to be”
Sheri Bardo / Life Coach www.authenticallyu.com
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You Must Become That Which You Want To Attract In Your Life."
Have you ever wished that people would be kinder to each other? That people would be more honest with each other? That people did what they said they were going to do? That relationships were deeper. That there really was such a thing as unconditional love? That people would see you for who you really are?
Anything that is important to you, must start with you first. If you want kindness, you must be kinder to every person you meet. In being kinder to others you will attract kindness to yourself from others.
You must be honest in each encounter with others. This action will attract more people into your life who are honest. Keep your word to others and you will attract more people in your life who will keep their word to you.
Offer the real you in relationships first, allowing yourself to be transparent and deeply connected then others will be transparent and deeply connected with you. Create a “safe place for others” and there will be safe places for you.
If you long for unconditional love for yourself, give it to others, it will find its way back to you.
If you long to have others see you for who you really are inside, see others for who they really are inside: a unique, one of a kind creation waiting to be seen for who they really are. The spirit side of you and others (the “real”, Authentic, God created side) is not self centered, needy, greedy, lacking, fearful angry, bitter, or hurtful, but loving, giving, open, kind, curious, abundant, prosperous, creative, intuitive, playful, helpful, generous, joyful, and amazing. If you start looking for those qualities in others and help them find them in themselves, You will recognize all of that in yourself.
Have you ever been at a dance and the music starts, but no one wants to be the first out on the floor…………. But as soon as the first couple takes that step onto the floor, others quickly follow and soon many are dancing with them. Life is like that. Be the first on the dance floor of life and soon there will be many others dancing with you. You will find a community of like minded spirits, who want to dance the dance of life with you.
Life is really about our own journey to truth and wholeness. Our choices and how we see things shape our world and attract what we have in our life. So if you do not like what you have in your life right now, begin today by being 100% responsible for the rest of your life and re-create your life and what you attract into it by being what you want others to be for you, the rest will follow effortlessly.
What we are not getting in our lives is a reflection or a mirror of what we are not being or giving out.
Be loving with yourself. Don't judge what you do not like about what you see reflected back to you in your life. Just notice it and get clear on what you would like to be different. Then let it start with you giving out what you want to see.
I am a Life Coach. I have a background in business, sales, public relations, and spiritual counseling. I own and operate Authentically You Retreats and Life Coaching . My Life Purpose is to live a life of Authenticity, Spiritual Truth, Abundance, Creativity and Celebration of all life's possibilities. I believe there is greatness in each individual and my joy is to take others on the adventure of finding their own greatness.
