Integrating Your 4 Freedoms (Part 8 of 9) - Mate Relationship and Summary Of The 4 Freedoms
One of the most powerful choices you can make on your path to total freedom is to select your relationship as the most important thing in your life. A relationship is the ideal arena for learning to become whole.
Integration in a Mate Relationship
relationship is a superlative setting for integrating your Four
Freedoms. A relationship is the ideal arena for learning to become
whole. Lovers do not complete each other but rather comprise one whole
relationship. Not only is committed relationship a testing ground for
confronting issues of personal and spiritual growth, it also provides a
secure haven in which to do so. In its cocoon, you can cultivate
pleasure and explore desire.
you engage in the intimacies of a relationship, as you learn the
knowledge and skills to become fit for a relationship, you will
naturally call upon, activate, and reinforce your Four Freedoms. No
matter how irrelevant or frightening a particular freedom can seem, it
is essential to embrace each of them, because they all interact subtly
in an infinite number of ways. Synchronizing, integrating, and bringing
the Four Freedoms (Body, Mind, Heart, and Soul) into harmony are some
of the most important tasks you can possibly undertake. Your health,
well-being, and happiness depend upon harmonization. The Four Freedoms
are optional, not mandatory. It is your responsibility to reclaim and
embrace your Freedoms.
your Four Freedoms is not particularly difficult. You do not have to
search for where to find them, for they reside within you. You do not
have to earn them, because they are your birthright. You do not have to
deserve them, because they wait to be claimed in the lost-and-found
room where you have forgotten that you left them.
Excerpted from our new book Sensual Love Secrets for Couples: The Four Freedoms of Body, Mind, Heart and Soul, by Al Link and Pala Copeland, Llewellyn, 2007.
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Al Link and Pala Copeland own and operate 4 Freedoms Relationship Tantra. They regularly host lover's romantic weekends near Ottawa Canada, and weeklong retreats in exotic locations. For more info Visit www.tantra-sex.com, www.sexyspiritualrelationships.com and their blog www.askaboutloveandsex.com or send email: email@example.com