No one stops you from speaking your rants in your profile. However, this may scare off everyone, including potential matches. They may translate it to something like you are someone who just got out of a bad relationship and is looking for someone to suck up the guilt with you. That’s a no no! Perhaps the best thing you can do is to describe what you feel objectively. Remember that you are looking for a partner and not a cold douche bag that you can apply to the burnt area.
From an interesting username to a perfectly taken picture of you in your dating site account that goes along well with your theme settings, your account appears really perfect not to be unnoticed by every visitor that comes to the webpage. Interests and goals for joining the community are stated with utmost clarity and you describe yourself with sincere honesty. However, after a while, you do not seem to get any reply from people you have tried to get in touch with. You have not received a single invitation or request to chat with other members and not even a poke or wink.
Now the problem could be complicated or very simple and easy to manage if you are aware of it. Unless it has something to do with the website’s system, then you cannot do anything about it, but to contact customer support and report the issue. Perhaps the first thing that you can do is to scan your profile for any errors that you might have written by mistake that can promote a misunderstanding for the reader.
Try not to appear to be sex-crazed. As simple as it may sound, using bold statements can appear a bit desperate and somehow creepy for the reader. Perhaps the best thing you can do is to use funny and endearing suggestive jokes as this can also reflect your personality and sense of humor. There are limitless figurative speeches that you can make use of, but make sure that you know what they really mean. Remember that you are on a dating site and not engaging in adult chat.
Quick questions before you fill out your profile. Do you know any person who doesn’t like listening to music or watching movies? Or maybe, do you know anyone who would say that they are up for anything? Well, the answer to that is a lot of people do. But, this is something that you shouldn’t write in your profile or else it appears way too cliché. Instead of telling about the genre of music or movies that you watch, maybe you can be more specific with which animation movie makes you take your socks off and wipe your tears with it. Share your passion if you must, but do not speak in general since you are trying to catch attention, not humor yourself.
“Which one are you in the picture? Is it the one with the plain dress or the lady in red with magnificent curves?”. If you happen to be the former, then you are not doing it right. You are supposed to post an image that shows yourself and not with someone who looks much more attractive way than you. You wouldn’t want to send a catalogue of your expensive products along with your competitor’s which are better and much cheaper? Advertise yourself, not your voluptuous mom.
