How To Approach Girls Even If The Thought Terrifies You

Jun 29 11:28 2010 Andrew Hunter Print This Article

When guys are trying to get better with women,Guest Posting one of the most difficult things is how to approach the girl. It's not easy at all. When approaching a girl, some guys have that anxiety when it comes to meeting them, but you have to work up your confidence beforehand. Figure out what you are going to say and where you are going to meet before approaching any girl.
Let's slowly breakdown this problem one bit at a time.
Approaching girls and mustering the courage for it.
Let's be honest. Most guys have difficulty talking to girls. Some guys don't have this problem, making them very lucky. Just approaching a girl can ruin the chances a guy has with a girl.
Ask yourself, what is holding you back from approaching a girl. Do you think she will not find you attractive enough? Do you think your conversation is lacking? The problem is there, you just have to ask yourself what it is, and improve upon it.
If you start working out and dressing better, then you won't feel like you attractiveness is holding you back anymore, giving you the confidence you need. If it's your conversation that is holding you back, then find a stranger to spark a conversation with.
How to approach girls.
Some guys just don't know where to find the women. Rather funny how that works, seeing as 50% of the earth's population is with women. Take my word, women are everywhere. Finding them won't be difficult, seeing as they need to buy groceries just like you, eat like you, go to work, etc.
The biggest thing a guy wants to know is where to find these girls that will allow them to approach the girl.  Finding that place is key.  The location of where you approach a girl can make a big difference.
Sharing something in common, like a hobby or pastime, will make approaching a girl that much easier. This will create an instant conversation.
Actually approaching girls.
Are you ready? There she is, all alone, across the room. What do you think you should do?
You better have something thought up to say to her. Find a good excuse to go up and talk to her Perhaps she wearing something nice, or doing something interesting that will create the conversation starter you need.
If you're still drawing a blank, try thinking a little harder. If you have nothing to talk to her about try to memorize a few canned PUA routines to keep as a backup plan.
If your confidence level is high and you know exactly what you want to tell the girl, then there is no reason not to approach to girl. Get to know her better by talking more and more and get her to reveal her personality. After talking, get her number if she's the kind of girl you'd like to get to know more.
That's what you need to do to approach girls. It isn't that hard after you get a few approaches under your belt. It can change your life and boost your overall confidence. Meeting new people (especially attractive women) can be one of the most exciting things out there. That person you are talking to could be your next girlfriend.

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