Why Woman Should Not Talk About Their Exes Too Much

In a relationship with a man, a woman should not talk about her ex too much. It is okay if he asks about it, but if he does not ask, then it is better to shut up and talk about other things. It is simply because men do not like to women who keep comparing them with others. Men do not like to be compared with others.

Sometimes you talk about how great your ex was or how he gave you surprises and those other things. Men who do not know your true intentions can get mixed up with the idea that your ex is better than him. Remember that women communicate with hidden message, while men communicate with direct intention.

So while the woman's intention is to tell the man that he can please her the way her ex used to do, like giving her flowers, showing up suddenly at her work just to have lunch with her, that message can be misinterpreted by men who think that she is comparing him with her ex and that he is not good enough.

Men want to be accepted by women just the way they are, not because he acted like someone else. Like the song, "I Did It My Way". Men want to do it his own way, not some body else way.

The key is when he ask about your ex, you should ask him back, why does he want to know about your ex.

If he answers that he just wants to know, then you should tell him the basic things about your ex.

But if he said that he wanted to know more because he wants to know you better, than that is the "hint" to let you tell more deep things about your ex. But do remember that you have to tell it slowly, because no matter what, a man have his own ego after all.