Moving – Helping Your Teenager Adjust to the Idea

No matter what the reason is, the thought of moving can be extremely scary for teenagers. As a parent, you may know that it’s the right thing at the right time, but nevertheless, it’s still a huge ordeal for teens. Take the time to discover how you can make this time easier on your child.

Consider your teens’ feelings

Children at this age are already going through numerous emotional issues and physical awakenings. Having friends, pursuing popularity or just trying to be cool is extremely important to teenagers. So when they find out they’re moving it can seem like the end of the world to them. They have to fit in at a new school, make new friends and get used to a brand-new environment. So make sure to be especially sensitive about what your teens are going through at this time and do all that you can to make the transition easier.

Be honest about why you’re moving

Unlike small children, teenagers have a better understanding about why it may make sense to move. Although they may not like it, teens can absorb what a better-paying job or more affordable cost of living can mean for the family. The most important thing is to be clear about all the reasoning behind the relocation and why it’s the right decision. Furthermore, be sure to listen to what you teens have to say about the situation. Taking the time to hear them out shows them that you value their opinions and are not just laying down the law. 

Let them visit the new location

If at all possible, instead of just talking about the new place, go for a ride and let your teens see for themselves. Be sure to not only visit the new home, but also try to check out schools, local theme parks, teen-friendly venues and anything else that may be attractive to teenagers. You want them to know that even though they are leaving their familiar surroundings, their new location will offer brand-new opportunities they can explore at their leisure.

Prepare for the unexpected

While you may think that at the end of the day, the entire family is moving, your teens may have different ideas. Some will try to work out a deal to stay with family or friends. If you say no, they may fight you every step of the way, making themselves and everyone else miserable. However, if you have teens that are in their last year of high school, allowing them to stay with a guardian could work out. At the very least, it wouldn’t hurt to research the issue in more detail.