Hail to the Chiefs - A Rabbi's Encounter with Two Presidents at a Wedding

A Presidential Affair at an Interfaith Wedding

Rabbi David Gruber recently found himself in a remarkable situation when he officiated a wedding ceremony attended by both former Presidents George H.W. Bush and George W. Bush, along with their wives. Such an occurrence is exceedingly rare, as the Bush family typically steers clear of private functions. The Rabbi and his wife, Liat, were initially uncertain if they would have the opportunity to meet the distinguished guests. However, not only did they meet them, but they also engaged in a meaningful conversation with President George W. Bush.

During the ceremony, Rabbi Gruber delivered the traditional Seven Wedding Blessings in English and chanted Psalm 67 in Hebrew, a melody usually reserved for Saturday nights. He explained the significance of this Psalm, which echoes themes and words from the oldest known scripture found in the Holy Land, the priestly blessing.

An Unforgettable Handshake and Conversation

After the ceremony, President George W. Bush expressed his appreciation for Rabbi Gruber's work from a distance and then invited him closer for a personal interaction. The Rabbi had the honor of shaking hands with both Presidents and their First Ladies, who all commended him on his performance. This alone would have been a memorable experience, but there was more to come.

As the elder Bushes mingled with other guests, Rabbi Gruber introduced Liat to President George W. and Mrs. Laura Bush. The former President then spent the next ten minutes in conversation with them, inquiring about their lives in Dallas, their origins, and their children. He showed particular interest in Liat's diverse North African and Eastern European heritage and was amused to learn that their youngest son shared his birthday, referring to him affectionately as "George."

A Discussion on Israel and Shared Affection

The conversation naturally turned to Israel, given Liat's birthplace and Rabbi Gruber's upbringing there. President Bush recounted a story from 1998 when Ariel Sharon took him on a helicopter tour over Israel's narrow 1967 borders, highlighting the strategic vulnerabilities of the region. The former Texas Governor's response at the time humorously underscored the vastness of his home state compared to Israel's slender width. Bush also expressed his genuine fondness for Sharon, whom he referred to as "the old tank driver."

Reflections on Religious Freedom and American Ideals

The encounter concluded with Mrs. Laura Bush summoning her husband for photos, a lighthearted reminder of the family's internal hierarchy. As they parted ways, Rabbi Gruber reflected on the profound nature of this personal experience. He pondered the revolutionary concept of religious freedom and equality introduced by George Washington, the first President of the United States. In a letter to the Jewish community of Newport, Rhode Island, Washington espoused the ideals of a government that neither sanctions bigotry nor assists persecution, ensuring that all who live under its protection should act as good citizens.

Many scholars believe the Founding Fathers would be astonished to see the Constitution not only endure but evolve to extend freedoms to an ever-widening circle of people. The Jewish people, in particular, have witnessed the rise and fall of regimes, often with dire consequences. Yet, the principles Washington articulated have not only survived but thrived, as evidenced by two of his presidential successors attending a wedding where Jewish blessings were chanted, followed by a relaxed chat with the Rabbi and his wife.

The Legacy of Presidential Encounters

It's worth noting that while such encounters with former Presidents are rare, they offer a glimpse into the personal qualities of these leaders beyond their political roles. The 43rd President, George W. Bush, is often regarded as a "mentsch" – a person of integrity and honor – and this interaction reaffirmed that reputation. The Rabbi and his wife experienced firsthand his genuine and approachable nature.

In the broader context of American history, this meeting underscores the enduring commitment to religious freedom and the remarkable journey of the Jewish community within the United States. From the early days of the republic, when the promise of equality was a novel idea, to the present, where former Presidents engage with citizens of all faiths, the nation has come a long way.

The Rabbi's experience at the wedding, detailed in this article, serves as a testament to the progress made and the values upheld by American society. It's a reminder of the unique tapestry of cultures and beliefs that continue to shape the United States, and the role that leaders, past and present, play in fostering an environment of respect and inclusivity.

For more insights into the history of religious freedom in America, readers may explore the Library of Congress archives or visit the George W. Bush Presidential Library and Museum.