Attractive Attitude

Naturally, attitude is a psychological state, and if we are going to enjoy friends, family, and anything else, we must have a good attitude!  As I'm sure we are all aware, attitude is how we approach anyone and anything. 

In order to have a good attitude, we must have goals we wish to attain, and of course, the motivation to do so...otherwise, we don't stand a chance of reaching those goals.  When we attain a goal, we usually get a warm feeling of accomplishment inside of us which makes us feel good about ourselves.  And it is the same when we solve a problem!  We did what was necessary to master the situation/s, and we won! And that, in turn, goes a very long way  in convincing ourselves that we can overcome any more problems that may arise...and that is known as a good attitude! 

Therefore, when we are doing our job, or everyday chores, it is important to realize that we are overcoming a problem, and every time we do it, we instill more confidence inside, which makes us better prepared for the next situation, for now we have a good attitude.  When we keep out attitude in a positive mode, we usually begin to enjoy the challenge, and we soon actually look forward to the next one.  Another plus to a good attitude is that we seem to find an inner strength that we didn't know we had, and when and if the problem gets harder or worse, the inner strength appears to get even stronger. 

The next thing you suddenly become aware of is the enormous self confidence that just builds and builds up within you, which in turn increases your positive attitude, which increases your self confidence, and so on....so the next time you face a chore or a problem, just dig your heels in, and be fanatical about overcoming it. 

Sure, sometimes we feel like the entire world is against us, and no one cares about us at all.  We become very lonely inside. Heck, I have been so lonely sometimes that I began crying.  Usually we feel this way when we have problems, because we have not let anyone know that we could use some help.  We have to let someone know that we are human and need help...there is nothing wrong with that, and it does not mean we are any less a normal human being.  Everybody needs help.  Trust me, there is no such thing as a self-made individual! We all need somebody!  Sometimes, we all need to allow someone else to feel good about themselves...ask them for help!

We humans do an enormous amount of planning, and work very hard at complicating our lives.  However, we also have the right and the power to change it anytime we wish to do so.  There is something really powerful about making a conscious decision to no longer endure any undesired thoughts or deeds that make us unhappy.  It is always a good idea to recollect that time cures everything! 

Just because we make a mistake doesn't mean we are some type of failure...accidents happen, but as long as we continually grasp onto the failure title, that is how we will always see ourselves.  We must let go of the self-destruction, and and re-grasp onto the right attitude that we are only human,  and that we always have, and always will, deserve a happy life --- and then plan the rest of our lives accordingly. By maintaining a good attitude, we can continue our path of becoming stronger in mind and spirit, and therefore also become a much wiser individual...not to mention that our family will enjoy being around us more, and us around them.

“Behold the turtle: He makes progress only when he sticks his neck out” ---James Bryant Conant