He Loves You, He Loves You Not…He Loves You?

If you have been getting mixed signals from your Ex, it may very likely be because they want you back! Now, this may be a good thing, or a bad thing, depending on what your relationship was like to begin with. If you ended on good terms, the possibility of a reunion may make you happy, but if it was a difficult break-up, you may rather tell them, Good Riddance. Trying to pick up on the signs that your Ex wants you back can be difficult. Here are some surefire ways to try and determine if he is into you again.

Step One: Nothing Happens By Accident

If your Ex knows where you shop, or what night clubs you go to, it won’t be that hard to “accidentally” run into you. If this does happen, try to catch what kind of vibe he/she is sending out. If they are extremely talkative and interested in what you have been doing in your life, it may be an indicator that they are interested again. When you say goodbye, see if they go in for a hug, and if they do, how long does it last and who let go first? You can certainly pick up on things through body language. See how many more of these “chance encounters” take place in order for you to determine whether or not they are interested in getting back together with you.

Step Two: Play Hard To Get

If it is obvious that your Ex wants to have you back, there is nothing wrong with playing a little hard-to-get. You don’t have to be at their beckon call whenever they wish it. Play the field a little bit. Don’t call them back immediately, or tell them you have plans if they want to see you again. If your Ex is truly interested in getting back together with you, they will be patient and will be waiting for you when you are ready.

Step Three:  Lookin’ Good

If your Ex has started coming around looking better than ever, then pat yourself on the back, because it could all be for you! Many times, if an Ex wants to get back together with you, they do whatever they can to improve their appearance so they can look as good as they can for you. If you notice that your Ex has been hitting the gym, or being more conscience of what they wear, it may mean that they are doing this so that you will take notice of them. Ease up a little and tell them how great they look.

Just following these few simple steps can let you know if you are getting the signs your Ex wants you back. Now that you know it’s true, you have some decisions to make!