Singles dating tips, what to do when it all goes wrong

Imagine this: you’re on a first date with a sexy person in a posh restaurant. You look good, you feel good, but the table is silent because neither of you can think of a way to start the conversation.

Horrible thought, isn’t it? After all the time and energy you put into getting ready for a date, the last thing you want is for it to all go south. Here are a few Singles dating tips you can use when it looks like it’s about to go downhill.

Singles dating tip number one; look the part. Know where you’re going and dress to match the occasion. Call ahead if you’re afraid there might be a dress code, and make sure you meet it.

Singles dating tip number two; what to do if they’re late. First of all, don’t panic! If you said to meet at 8pm and by 8:01 they’re not there, it is okay. While everyone should strive to arrive early for a date, being a little late isn’t a crime. They may have arrived earlier than you and took a walk around the block to pass the time.

If you are the one who is late, let your date know. If something has happened and you’re leaving late, call them and let them know. Avoid texting at this time, as it seems rude and inconsiderate, or rushing off thinking that you can beat the traffic. Take a moment to call and explain the situation, but let them know you’re still coming.

Singles dating tip number three; planned conversation starters. Briefly catch up on the news or local current affairs show and remember a couple of key stories from it. Try to avoid stories that are overly political or sad (no stories about dead puppies, please), but talking about the news will let you know how well informed the other person is, as well as their morals and beliefs.

If the news isn’t going down well, try using a ‘what if” scenario to start a conversation. They can be funny or factual, but ask your date a ‘what if’ scenario and see how they respond, but make sure you have a response lined up. After your turn, tell your date it’s theirs, and answer honestly. What if scenarios can start off as ice breakers but can wind up leading to in depth conversations.

Recall these dating tips if a dating emergency arises, but remember not to panic if something goes wrong. This can be a funny story that you tell your grandkids about.