Winning Your Ex Back - Can It Be This Easy To Figure It Out?

After a break up some people will throw out everything that reminds them of their ex. But then they find they still cannot stop thinking about them! Confusion turns to desire and then next thing you know winning your ex back is all you can think of.Is this crazy or what? Actually, it is quite normal. Emotions of love will generate some of the most complex thoughts possible in our minds. Remember the daisy - she loves me, she loves me not? On the one hand we might hate our ex because of the pain they caused and on the other hand we want our ex back so the pain goes away!How do you know what to do and whether to pursue winning your ex back?Here are 3 easy steps that should give you some direction:Step 1. Figure out why you broke up in the first place. Was it just some one off argument that turned into a big fight? Do you even remember the cause of the argument, many times the argument is started by something so trivial you forget what it was and one thing leads to another.We all say things we do not really mean and usually live to regret them. Was the break up over something so severe that you cannot work it out and love each other again?Step 2. Take a look at how you feel after the break up. You are probably still a bit confused, but unless you are happy he or she is out of your life you need to analyze how you really feel. If you are reading this article then I suggest you still have feelings for your ex.Determine if those feelings are coming from your heart and contain love that is not extinguished and should be pursued. Sadness is to be expected as well and it probably is preventing you from sleeping well. Someone you cannot stop thinking about, in a positive way, is probably someone you still have deep feelings for.Step 3. Make a choice. You really have two choices in the matter. If you try and succeed at winning your ex back then do everything you can to make the relationship a success. If not, then you need to move on in life to the next relationship and avoid the mistakes you made in the last one.You may want to stay single for a while to clear your head but you do not want to go so long that you may make a bad decision just to avoid being alone. Always be on alert for where your heart is going and who it may be pointing you toward.These 3 easy steps can help you sort out your emotions and help stop the pain. Then you can rationally take action to get your ex back or to carry on with your life a happy single until you meet the next mister or miss right.With the right strategy you can succeed at winning your ex back or making the next relationship a blow your mind winner.Learn what you need to know to get it right either way. Watch the free video at our website to start, the address is http://www.RelationshipAdviceHelp.com.