FAQ on How to Save a Relationship

Dec 8
08:32

2009

Andrew Hunter

Andrew Hunter

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Is you're finding your relationship in danger of a breakup, this article will answer some common questions that I have encountered on how you can go about saving a relationship from those dreaded words, "we need to talk."

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If you are concerned that your relationship is breaking at the seams and you guys might break up,FAQ on How to Save a Relationship Articles than you should continue reading some of my personal answers to common questions asked about saving a relationship.

Q: Where do I start to save my relationship?

A: First, you must realize and know for sure that this relationship is important to you. It depends on your situation but most relationships breaking up has both or one of the parties involved taking the relationship for granted. Your relationship might start to fray when you start to neglect any form of affection.

Q: When it comes to my troubled relationship , where do I begin to fix it.

A: Blaming one another isn't going to fix the relationship. Being in control of your own actions can help fix your frayed relationship. You will need to look deep within you and ask yourself these hard questions. Think about what you  have done to make the relationship the way it is, if you want to improve your relationship, you need first improve yourself. You can't expect anyone other than yourself to change .

Q: How can I change my boyfriend?

A: From what you've read earlier, you can't expect anyone to change for you. You have to love him for who he is or not at all. Some people these days think everything should be equally divided. From household cleaning to paying for dates to buying groceries, or anything else you can think of. This could be a perfect way to treat a business but it can really damage a relationship. No matter what your significant other does or doesn't do, you need to love them no matter what.

Q: What can I do to reverse the damaged that has been done to our relationship?

A: If you know what caused your relationship to be damaged then you should already know what NOT to do. You need to watch what you can say or do to cause a fight and stop yourself from doing those things. With practice, it will be easier to catch yourself  before you do something that can hurt your relationship more. When you catch yourself, you should be the bigger person and drop the issue if it's not worth the fight.

Q: How else can I fix our damaged relationship?

A: Let your partner know that you are willing to do what it takes to help save your relationship. Be honest with your feelings and just tell him you are sorry for what you have contributed to the current situation. Try no to be self-righteous about the situation or explain your actions. Get ready for whatever may happen and be honest with your feelings. Let him know that this relationship is worth saving to you because you love him and will make your best effort to fix it. He might also take apologize for things he has done, but that doesn't matter. Being sincere and apologetic will let him know you are committed to fixing the relationship.

It may take some time to change things and learn to do and say things differently. Being honest with each other and committing to the relationship will make it easier to save what you two have.

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