Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life, when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your lover wants space.
Almost everyone has experienced a powerful relationship in their life,
when suddenly everything which seems so perfectly is broken off because your lover wants space.
Now your are wondering "how to win your love back?"
There are a number of different reasons for why a love may suddenly need space, including family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few.
Here are some tips for answering the age old "how to win your love back" question if your ex needs more space.
- You are not going to want to lose your pride, or to allow them to get the best of you - But clearly you are still in love with them.
It may be ideal to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show them that yes, it was their loss and not your own.
- If you are feeling like your ex still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation with them.
Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum.
Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great way to remind them how much they wants to be a part of your life without overwhelming them with your presence when they may actually want and need space.
- Eventually they will begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce with them.
Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past.
While rekindling a relationship with your ex love, you are going to want to stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
- If your ex love is not responding to your slow and subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is.
Either they just really is not interested in you right now, or they really do just need space and you should give it to them.
But if on the other hand they seem to be interested in you more than before, or is slowly warming up to you again, then you should continue gradually advancing on them to rekindle the relationship.
- If your ex love is giving you the right signals, you can try to open your heart up to them.
Let them know how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex love is showing you that they are thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be open with them.
But if their signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.
