Does a Cheating Wife Inevitably Lead to Divorce?

Jan 21 14:30 2006 Larry Bilotta Print This Article

To avoid a divorce, instead of confronting your cheating wife, try asking yourself where YOU went wrong. After all...women don’t leave great guys.

I dont know a thing about you,Guest Posting but I'll bet that your cheating wife is causing you more pain and stress than you'd care to admit.

But let me ask you; instead of immediately making accusations and placing blame, did you ever stop and ask yourself "where did I go wrong?"

If you haven't, dont worry. Most men NEVER DO.

What I want you to do for a moment is shift your thoughts away from all the information out there telling you to focus on EXPOSING your cheating wife and shift your thinking to the following statement...

Women DONT LEAVE great guys.

Its true. Why on Earth would your wife fall into the arms of another man when she has a caring, compassionate and sensitive man at home?

So again, I want you to ask yourself, "Where did I go wrong?"

I know you may be filled with anger and resentment thinking, "who does this guy think he is blaming ME for all this, its my WIFE who has been unfaithful...NOT ME!"

I want to make it clear that I am NOT placing blame on YOU...and I am NOT placing blame on YOUR WIFE either.

I need you to put your feelings aside for a moment and think about this LOGICALLY.

The only reason you're faced with a cheating wife right now is because your wife has a set of needs that you were not able to fulfill. But that's okay because SHE did not communicate them to you in the first place, so you had NO WAY of knowing what you were doing wrong!

Have you ever noticed the language of most infidelity experts out there on the internet centers on one theme: "catch, prove, divorce".

Their premise is simple.

Your wife's crime is unforgivable and her punishment will give you a sense of relief!

These "experts" make you believe that you'll feel righteous after catching your cheating wife because SHE'S the villain and YOU'RE the good guy.

But after all the dust settles and everything is out in the open, reality starts to set in.

Your cheating wife has left you with not one, but TWO possible roads you can take.

The first road of exposing your cheating wife leads to confrontation, argument and most often...divorce.

If you choose to get a divorce without knowing the REAL REASON your wife cheated on you in the first place, you'd just be glossing over the problem, instead of fixing it and preventing it from happening again in the future.

And before you decide to take this road to any degree, you must first consider the REAL COST of choosing this road.

Confronting your cheating wife will most likely bring on a higher level of stress for you because you'll come to find out that theres a BIG difference between SUSPECTING your wife is cheating and actually finding SOLID PROOF that she's been unfaithful.

Finding ACTUAL evidence of an affair is NEVER easy, despite what the authors say.

But here's the big question.

Will your wife become more cooperative and interested in you if you blame and confront her (especially when she knows she's wrong), OR if you understand why she feels the way she does?

The answer is obvious.

Confronting your cheating wife will only bring on divorce and destroy the lives of your children. But the question is; can you stomach the proof?

The other road you can take is to draw your cheating wife back into your arms instead of throwing away what the two of you have invested in over the years.

You may be thinking you don't stand a chance to win over your cheating wife from the other man. She may have told you that she's in love with the other man because HE gives her what YOU never have.

If you want to find out how to 'divorce proof' your marriage and become the man she'll NEVER want to leave, read the FREE Special Report titled The Secret Path to Divorce.

What you'll learn will do MUCH more for you than learning how to become a great spy.

Instead, it will help you realize exactly why WOMEN DONT LEAVE GREAT GUYS.

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Larry Bilotta
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