Subconscious signals

Jul 29 14:52 2007 Oxana Boichenko Print This Article

Gestures are always accompanying our words and express our feelings. Right interpretation of person’s gestures can tell you more about him than what he says. In actuality, your success in relations with the opposite sex depends on your abilities to understand the signals that were sent by your partner. If you interpret them right you could send your own right signals to him and tactically behave.

Nonverbal communication is a behavior,Guest Posting other than spoken or written communication, that creates or represents meaning. In other words, it includes facial expressions, body movements, and gestures.  Nonverbal communication is talking without speaking a word. It is very effective, maybe even more so than speech. Remember the saying, "Actions speak louder than words." This can help you to understand your partner better, of course if you are watching the body language carefully and study what it means.

Actually, your success in relations with the opposite sex depends on your abilities to understand the signals sent by your partner. If you interpret them correctly, you can send the correcponding signals and behave tactically. If you want to figure someone out, it's better to combine that person's words and gestures when analysing a situation. When the words of your opponent contradict his gestures, you better trust the motions.

It's worth mentioning that women possess a larger spectrum of refined ways to attract attention and manipulate men. However, long stares, adjusting hair and clothes, and alluring gestures are common for both sexes. For example, dilated pupils and blushing cheeks show person's excitement. If you want to have a complete understanding between you and your partner, you can conciliate him in a fast and simple way by copying his pose and reflecting his gestures. Do it gradually, but only you feel yourself comfortable enough.

In case of long-distance relationship, guys want to know how to behave when meeting ladies after the long months of correspondence over the Internet. Behaving correctly in such situations is crucial. So, here's one tip that will help you understand if your female partner is sexually attracted to you.

Specialists say, before two people decide on a mental level if they need or want each other, their chemistry makes it obvious from the first moment of a face-to-face date. Every person has intimate or private space with the radius of 50 centimeters. If you want to check whether a lady is attracted to you, try to cross over the border of her personal space and step back again after a few seconds. Then watch her reaction. If a woman allows you to enter her territory and feels herself relaxed, free and comfortable, it's a signal for you to get closer to her. On the contrary, if she's nervous and tries to get back from you while hiding irritation, it means she's not ready for a close, sexual relationship. All this happens on a subconscious level so she'll never notice that you're testing her. She may even have not understood yet, if she likes or dislikes the person.

Also, when a female is interested in the opposite sex, she involuntarily puts her feet a bit broader than usual. Even if she's in a company of several men, no matter if she's sitting or standing, her toes will be always directed towards a man she's interested in. Crossed legs always show emotional dissatisfaction, though sometimes a woman does so if she is highly sexually excited. That's why you should watch her eyes and mimicry as well.

Besides, for women the smell is one of the facts of the utter importance, because they are much more sensible to this kind of irritants. So, if they find some odor nice and gentle, it can greatly increase their sexual desire. If you want to attract a girl, use some good toilet water, but not too strong, before seeing the lady of your dream. The next steps will depend from your first experience and meeting.

For most guys, traveling to a girls' home-country is a life altering decision, as many men may find it hard to choose their partner without actually meeting in person. So, it's utterly normal to take a "private tour" and meet several ladies. Most girls will understand such a course of action; however, a few may find it offensive to know that there is competition.

We wish you all the best in your search of A SPECIAL WOMAN!

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