G*A*Y or GAY - why is it hard! - ...to talk about?

Aug 4 21:00 2004 Wayne Lowe Print This Article

If your a straight man reading this great, if your a gay man reading this great, if your a straight women reading this great, and if your a gay women great too. When you hear this word, what is your p

If your a straight man reading this great,Guest Posting if your a gay man reading this great, if your a straight women reading this great, and if your a gay women great too.

When you hear this word, what is your physical reaction? Do you hide in dear that someone is looking over your should that your reading about something thats GAY? Will you quickly close this page and re-open when everyone has gone? If you do, why?

Do straight men actually hate gay men because there wifes or girlfriends love having a guy around who doesnt fancy the ass off them? They may not be able to give them what they want sexually, but gay men give advice and love in manye different ways and levels that a straight man may not be able to do or even attempt to do. If you think about it as a straight guy, gay men like men? Right! So if your liked by men and women wouldnt that be great! But there is no reason for you to all be hating the gay community at all.

lesbians are accepted more than gay men, as straight men would approve of lesbians, most of them anyway. But also straight women would love to see two men going at it also. Its a curious thing.

If you could choose, would you be liked by only women, only men, or both? I would choose both. The word GAY has been around for years, but recently its been acceptable that the gay community is being accepted into the world as something that happens.

Its mainly men who hate the gay men, why is this though? Are they offended that they are seen as attractive by someone of the same sex, or are you insulted that they want to have sex with you?

Women dont just jump all over men, and men dont just jump all over women, its disresectful, so gay men wont just jump onto straight men.

So why is the word gay hard to talk about it. Lesbians are being more and more widely accepted, some music videos are now at the centre of the whole area of gay. Madonna and Briteny and Christina kiss, that was excellent, and some may have seen it as disgusting, its a way to get attention and sell records, thats why they did it.

You could one day as a straight man, confide in someone who is gay. They are still only human and deserve love and affection the same way anybody does.

Admission that some gay men are over the top, when they need not be, which does irritate nrealy the whole population of the planet. Marco from Big brother (who shouldnt really get a mention on here) was a person who hyped it all up. But in the long run he was seen as a good character, who sometimes was bitchy!!

So if a straigh heterosexual family has a baby boy, and turned out to be gay, what would happen, the dad would know and make the childs life hell??? Maybe not, it wont happen in this day an age. When they are old enough to decide they want to come out they will, and at the time they do it will be fine, as all there friends will give them all the attention and support they need.

Some areas of the world arnt ready for the gay community to arrive, but it shouldnt be on a time scale at all. If your ready to come out come out!!! Being afraid is the end of it all. You've worried about it all that your going to get beaten up, but people get beaten up over football, hooligans and alcoholic drinking, its all part of life, and its if your able to stand up and face the world.

When someone is gay they are hidden away, now they are not afraid to. Humans, be it gay , black, white, chinese, or any ethnic origin, we all accept everyone of them - I do!! This planet isnt just made up of one species of animal, or plant, or rock, so why do we have to be the same!!! Cause we dont, they are an abundance of personalities around the globe and the word G A Y is being highly accepted.

MAN - Chester is a great way to pull forward the ways of the world. Liverpool is the Capital of Culture, but it would still be hard for anyone to bring up a child in some areas of the world!

Straight, gay, bisexual. These are just words, and if you mum turned out to be a lesbian, she is still your mum, or even your dad, he might turn out to be gay. If it hasnt happened to you yet it will, not in terms of everyones family turning gay, but you will come across someone who is, and you will or will not find them as your best friend.

Best friends share alot. Gay men and straight women click like a house on fire. They share girly passions and shopping etc.

If you still feel bad about the word gay then read this again. Most women say that a gay place is the safest to be, like in gay clubs there is zero violence and if there is its only over something like who's dancing better than who - lol.

Typically G*A*Y or GAY - why is it hard! - ...to talk about? Becuase your unaware!!

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