For many men the desire to have a beautiful young woman at their side is very attractive and many Russian, Ukrainian women seek an older partner. This article considers some of the implications and practicalities of such unions from both points of view and the summary? It can work out just fine with just a little care and consideration.
Is it a quest for imortality, is it wanting to show and prove we remain vital? Whatever the reason many men desire to be with a younger woman. Well as fate would have it, many Russian, Ukrainian women would prefer to be with an older man. What are the realities behind unions across the age gap?
As the CEO of an International dating & matchmaking agency based in The Ukraine I know from personal experience and observation that the dream of many men for a younger partner can be achieved, but let us first look at this issue from both sides. The ladies registered to my agency range in age from 18 to 50 years old, but it is fair to say the overwhelming majority of these ladies are seeking an older man and this is even more noticeable with the younger ladies.
Why? What is the attraction of an older partner for these ladies? The first issue to bear in mind is that Russian, Ukrainian ladies are unique in that they seem to mature at a remarkably young age. Quite why this should be is not clear to me, but it is an undeniable fact. Maybe it is traditional, maybe it has always been so within these countries. Of course the physical & material hardship within these countries must play a part.
Many of these ladies embark on educating themselves at what is by Western standards, a very young age and many have completed a university course and obtained a diploma by the age of 22 years of age, they take very seriously their education. Gaining the best education achievable and a valid and profesional qualification is very important for the majority of these ladies and this normally comes before thoughts of marraige.
Contrary to the understanding of many, the majority of these ladies would like to pursue a career even after marriage and would like to maintain some intellectual challenge in their life, in preference to being totally dependent upon their partner.
It is a misconception to believe that the attraction for these ladies, of a older partner is only financial, but it is fair to say it can be a consideration. It seems from my observations that so many of these ladies are too mature, advanced and even intelligent to mix with men of their age. From my observations I will list some of the qualities they seek from an older partner, some of the attractions from their perspectives.
They seek someone that can treat them as the intelligent, aware, women that they are. Someone that knows how to romance and treat a beautiful woman. Someone that can support them emotionally, spiritually and materially and someone that will listen to them value their opinions and value them as a human being.
Many of these ladies are very beautiful, they know that! What they crave and need is that their inner qualities be appreciated, that they be valued as a human being. So clearly the desires and aspiration of any man seeking a younger partner can be achieved, but what are the implications involved?
If the age difference is 20 years or more they will need to take care of themselves, keep fit and keep healthy (something many men in the west are doing). Be flexible and open. You and your partner will be at different stages within the cycle of life and she might well prefer to go out more, socialise more and lead a more active life than you. Can you adapt to that?
As I have mentioned from my observations many of these Russian, Ukrainian ladies share a maturity some 10 years in advance of their actual years, so if you conversely feel younger than your physical age you can meet in the middle.
There is a popular belief now in the West that 50 years old is the new 30 and 60 the new 40. I personally believe this is completely dependent on the individual, the lifestyle and attitudes etc.but what do we all need from a relationship? What will keep a relationship alive and mutualy satisfying? This can as easily be accomplished within an age gap relationship, it can be equally, if not more successful.
What is the food and drink of any successful relationship, what can sustain a relationship in a difficult moment? Mutual respect, understanding and to some extent selflessness. I see no difference at all in a relationship of differing ages.
If you are lucky enough to win a Russian, Ukrainian lady she is probably going to be beautiful and attract much attention and as with all ladies they will enjoy being admired? It makes them feel good.
Do not feel vulnerable, remember she choose you and so far that you give to your love that which you yourself need, respect, kindness and support she is yours. Slavic women are arguably the most loyal on the planet and so far that you do not drive her away she is yours and yours only.
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