Having troubles finding a girlfriend in the offline realm? Do you tend to make a fool of yourself when approaching a girl, and then back away slowly f...
Having troubles finding a girlfriend in the offline realm?
Do you tend to make a fool of yourself when approaching a girl,
and then back away slowly from her and then steer clear of her until you are no longer embarrassed?
Or do you find a whole lot of girls who are not what you want in a girlfriend?
If this resonates with you then you might want to take the online approach to finding a girlfriend and bypass the initial approach, or improve your search to find the type of girlfriend you are trying to find.
Online you can avoid the physical approach and talk from the comfort of your computer at first. This will show a girl what kind of guy you really are before you have a chance to screw it up!
How To Find a Perfect Girl Online
Don’t Try To Fit Into Her Needs
When you find a girl online you can easily chat her up to figure out what she likes and where her interests lie. And as a bonus, if you find a girl on an online dating site you can pretty much view what she likes without even having to chat with her yet.
Just remember though, that whether you find a girl on a dating website or on a social networking site you have to be the real you. You have to present your real hobbies, morals, wants, and needs in life. Why? That's the only way to find the perfect girlfriend!
If she likes you because of what you tell her than she is starting to like the guy who you are pretending to be, not the real you. The real you and she may not get along as well as the fake you and her. This is not something you want to discover month later.
Besides that, you can not be fake forever, and if she is not happy with the real you then she will feel betrayed and upset that you lied to her – even if it is just a tiny stretch of the truth.
You will never go wrong by being honest.
Don't Show Her Your Best Side
It's a popular suggestion to show someone your best picture before you meet them. You know, the one that captured every feature just perfect!. That’s the one that shows you in your best light, and while it is you – it’s only a perfect still moment of you.
A picture and a person can look significantly different. In real life your face is not unmoving the ‘in person’ test when you finally meet.
Write as You Would Normally Speak
Before I started writing on a full-time basis, I didn’t understand how different I sounded on paper as opposed to in the flesh. Now, I strive to write just like I talk – especially when I'm talking to someone who I know well.
Most girls size you up after observing many different things, like how you move, the things you do, and the way you talk. If you come across as a huge conversationalist because of your writing language, and then they meet you and realize that you are far different than what you writing led them to believe – you may be in for a disappointment, because they may find themselves disappointed.
I'm not talking about speaking issues such as stuttering. I’m speaking about the words you use and how you use them. If you describe your latest vacation in writing as ‘an incredible journey that gave you enlightenment you have never felt’ but in person describe your latest trip in words like ‘a trip that let you see a lot of things’ then there is a difference in tone and it affects how people view you.
If you are descriptive in real life than be descriptive with your writing. Be the real you!
