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Donald Schnell

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Article Title: Choose Happiness
Author Name: Dr. Donald Schnell
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Category: Personal Development,Choose Happiness Articles Motivation, Self Help
Copyright Date: 2003

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Choose Happiness

By Donald Schnell

Choose Happiness© September 2002

It's a beautiful spring day in Beverly Hills, California.
I'm looking out my window at elm trees in full leaf and
roses in full bloom, and thinking about the people who
helped me get where I am today.

Mark Johnson was the kind of guy some people love to hate.
He was always in a great mood and always had something
positive to say. When he saw you, he enthusiastically
boomed, “Hello, my friend!” When you asked him how he was,
he nearly shouted, “I'm on top of the world!” I was
sometimes a little embarrassed by his noisy exuberance, but
I was glad he was my friend.

Mark was a unique worker at the Phelps Dodge Copper Mine in
my home town of Ajo, Arizona. The miners followed him
around. Because of his attitude, he was a natural
motivator. If one of the guys was having a bad day, Mark
was there to help him see the bright side of any
situation. Once I remember him taking one of the men to the
bank with him after work. I later learned that Mark had
personally given over half his check to help that man
cover his family's medical bills. It wasn't the first time
Mark had done this. Many could testify to his generosity.

And those were tough times for copper miners in the
1970's-with only a decade left before the mine would
close, and Ajo would turn into a ghost town

Mark Johnson and I worked in the Smelter-the OVEN. Hot
enough to melt gold. Hot enough to melt your shoes…it was

Mark's positive approach to life made me curious, so one
day I asked him, "I don't get it! Everyone grumbles and
complains about the hard work, the heat, and the low wages.
Everyone but you. No one can be a positive person all the
time. How do you do it?"

Mark had a quick answer, and a quicker smile, "Each
morning I wake up and say to myself, 'Mark, you have two
choices today. You can choose to be in a good mood or you
can choose to be in a bad mood.' Don, I choose to be in a
good mood. Each time something bad happens, I can choose to
be a victim or I can choose to learn from it. Don, I choose
to learn from it. Every time someone comes to me
complaining, I can choose to accept their complaining or I
can point out the positive side of life. Don, I choose the
positive side of life."

"Yeah, right, it's not that easy," I protested.

"Yes, it is," Mark said. "Life is all about choices. Every
situation is a choice. You choose how you react to each
situation. You choose how people will affect your mood. You
choose to be in a good mood or bad mood. The bottom line:
it's your choice how you live life."

My job in the mines that summer was challenging. I was only
19 years old after all. I was home for the summer to try
to make enough money for my sophomore year at Arizona

Challenging? That is a major understatement. My
assignment: to shovel from the top of the OVEN the metallic
soot that would build up on the roof. It took a shovel and
an industrial strength vacuum cleaner to do the job. Life
threatening? Yep!

That OVEN had to be clean or it might collapse. We worked
in crews of two-man teams. For safety, we strapped wooden
platforms beneath our shoes. As we worked we kept an eye
on our platforms, and if they started to smoke, we jumped
off the OVEN before our shoes caught fire. The top of the
OVEN was the hottest, because heat rises. I resented when
Mark was transferred to the ICE HOUSE. He was going to
work in the coolest place in Arizona during that infernal
summer. Why not me? He now had one of the nicest jobs you
could get in that fiery Hell called a copper mine. Why not

Things change. The miners went on strike. Mark came to me
in great distress. It was the first time I'd ever seen him
upset. “Don,” he said, “I've got to work. I'm going to have
to be a scab. I have a family to feed. My wife Becky is 8
months pregnant.” Tough decision. The toughest.

In Ajo, an innocent child of a scab was once shot to death.
Countless are the brutal stories I can recall of how scabs
were severely beaten, crippled or killed for their decision
to cross the picket line. Mark had nowhere to turn. Copper
mining was the only industry in that town 100 miles from
civilization. He had no money to move, no money to travel.
Sadly, I supported him in his decision. What else could I

The next day was ugly. Hundreds of angry miners lined up to
taunt, jeer and protest the few scabs who showed up to
work. Mark hung his head in shame as he drove through the
picket line in a company truck with armed escorts. The
decision to work was fatal. But not because of the miners'
hatred of scabs. Mark was assigned my job to clean the
top of the OVEN. The same I'd worked on only days before.
That day, witnesses saw the OVEN collapse, and my friend
Mark was instantly incinerated.

Mark's death had a major impact on me. It could have been
my life that was taken by that OVEN. I was a kid, and I
hurt. Worst of all, I felt guilty for resenting his time in
the Ice House. I felt guilty for not always welcoming his
positive outlook. But, now he was gone. His family was
fatherless. Because his last work was that of a scab, he
was counted as a temporary worker, and the family lost all
his benefits. It was a tragedy I couldn't handle. The fire
of that oven burned inside my gut. I had to turn my anger,
my guilt, and my sadness and pain into something positive.
I reflected on Mark's upbeat philosophy and decided that I
could best honor him by being like him, and focusing on the
good in my life.

Mark's untimely death taught me a valuable lesson. Life is
short. There is no telling when we will be called to take
the Great Adventure. Each day of our lives is precious.
Mark was 100% right. Each day is a choice. You and you
alone decide what kind of day you will have. You can choose
to be happy or sad, loving or hateful. Enlightenment is
all about choice. What choice are you going to make today?
Remember my friend Mark this week and make the choice to be